When riding off the field by way of the dirt road both days I was greeted by salutes from the Civil Air Patrol volunteers. Although I understand the sentiment and my perception of their intention, I was made somewhat uncomfortable by it. I was not bearing colors, and I am not a veteran, so I felt completely undeserving of the honor. I returned the salutes, as did Guy Musgrove who was with me on saturday, for I felt to not do so would be equally as inapropriate.
Making it even more uncomfortable, we had just shaken the hand of, and thanked for his service, a gentleman in a wheel chair wearing a VFW hat who might well have been W.W.II age.
On sunday I again returned the salutes, but also addressed the adult members and told them to find a real veteran and render that honor upon them, I do not deserve it.
So my question is, in that case do we accept it humbly, or try to redirect to those more deserving? Are they saluting us, or the uniforms we are wearing and the cause we represent? Is it better to accept the honor or to risk offending those who rendered it?
Just looking for some input, maybe proper protocal. No modern political rants, please, I would just like to discuss what is appropriate. I was Federal, by the way.
Moderators, relocate if you wish. As if you needed my permission....
Making it even more uncomfortable, we had just shaken the hand of, and thanked for his service, a gentleman in a wheel chair wearing a VFW hat who might well have been W.W.II age.
On sunday I again returned the salutes, but also addressed the adult members and told them to find a real veteran and render that honor upon them, I do not deserve it.
So my question is, in that case do we accept it humbly, or try to redirect to those more deserving? Are they saluting us, or the uniforms we are wearing and the cause we represent? Is it better to accept the honor or to risk offending those who rendered it?
Just looking for some input, maybe proper protocal. No modern political rants, please, I would just like to discuss what is appropriate. I was Federal, by the way.
Moderators, relocate if you wish. As if you needed my permission....


While the thought of a 6 pdr in Afganistan right then was savory, I doubt we'd last too long.
Kids really do not seem to understand the difference between re-enactor civilian and active soldier. To them a uniform is a sign of active duty. The CAP kids were probably aware of the difference and merely mimicking behavior they saw from an older member, or not knowing what they should do they decided to err on the side of perceived patriotism instead of risking a tongue-lashing by some CAP officer. As to how to handle it, I usually ignore the gaff rather than call attention to it, although I have on occasion explained the difference when time permitted. Anyway, it is good to see the CAP kids actually showing some sort of patriotism. So often kids their age are acting like fools.
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