When riding off the field by way of the dirt road both days I was greeted by salutes from the Civil Air Patrol volunteers. Although I understand the sentiment and my perception of their intention, I was made somewhat uncomfortable by it. I was not bearing colors, and I am not a veteran, so I felt completely undeserving of the honor. I returned the salutes, as did Guy Musgrove who was with me on saturday, for I felt to not do so would be equally as inapropriate.
Making it even more uncomfortable, we had just shaken the hand of, and thanked for his service, a gentleman in a wheel chair wearing a VFW hat who might well have been W.W.II age.
On sunday I again returned the salutes, but also addressed the adult members and told them to find a real veteran and render that honor upon them, I do not deserve it.
So my question is, in that case do we accept it humbly, or try to redirect to those more deserving? Are they saluting us, or the uniforms we are wearing and the cause we represent? Is it better to accept the honor or to risk offending those who rendered it?
Just looking for some input, maybe proper protocal. No modern political rants, please, I would just like to discuss what is appropriate. I was Federal, by the way.
Moderators, relocate if you wish. As if you needed my permission....
Making it even more uncomfortable, we had just shaken the hand of, and thanked for his service, a gentleman in a wheel chair wearing a VFW hat who might well have been W.W.II age.
On sunday I again returned the salutes, but also addressed the adult members and told them to find a real veteran and render that honor upon them, I do not deserve it.
So my question is, in that case do we accept it humbly, or try to redirect to those more deserving? Are they saluting us, or the uniforms we are wearing and the cause we represent? Is it better to accept the honor or to risk offending those who rendered it?
Just looking for some input, maybe proper protocal. No modern political rants, please, I would just like to discuss what is appropriate. I was Federal, by the way.
Moderators, relocate if you wish. As if you needed my permission....
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