Re: Attitude
Raymond 1998 myself, Andrew Goode and another fellow were having a great conversation about Abe Lincoln, trains etc. when this guy comes up and sits down with us. At first he was doing a really good job until he started talking abotu diesel trains. Talk about ruining a moment.
Hank you are right about picking and choosing when to talk modern. I had a friend of mine (this person is now a Nation Boy) who was brand new to the hobby. We had sent e-mails to one another. I told him whatever yo do do not call me by my real name. I will not respond. Well, he called me by my real name and I told him I never heard of that fellow.
To add to what I stated about modern talk. We usually go for a walk or two or three of us meet. This does not turn into a meeting. I hate talking modern at events but it happens. Just like students in my class. I know they are going to talk about other things than why did WWII happen so why fight it. Give those that need to talk about the next event do so in a private way. In the 12th Iowa Company C members were alway leaving for "Seasons of Prayer" guess that is our way of having a "Season of Prayer." Just so you know this isn't happening every twenty minutes. We set this practice so that we could in priavte ask how a pard is doing and not offend others. Hank, you and I are on the right path. Want to come to the Lost Tribes?
Those that want to do it will. And those that won't will be standing at the snow cone line. :)
First person also works when you have a core group that you are always with. So far going to events with the ONV, Hardcase we have developed a bond. We now share common experiences. We can laugh at each other because we know each other. I think we get caught up in tactics, uniforms etc when we forget that these guys were brothers, cousins, friends, neighbors. They knew and trusted (Or didn't trust) on antoher.
First person works! It just takes time. Yes, you have to read. But you also need to know and trust those around you. As captain of Company B myself and the other officers and NCO's are going to work hard to create the experience that we want.
Raymond 1998 myself, Andrew Goode and another fellow were having a great conversation about Abe Lincoln, trains etc. when this guy comes up and sits down with us. At first he was doing a really good job until he started talking abotu diesel trains. Talk about ruining a moment.
Hank you are right about picking and choosing when to talk modern. I had a friend of mine (this person is now a Nation Boy) who was brand new to the hobby. We had sent e-mails to one another. I told him whatever yo do do not call me by my real name. I will not respond. Well, he called me by my real name and I told him I never heard of that fellow.
To add to what I stated about modern talk. We usually go for a walk or two or three of us meet. This does not turn into a meeting. I hate talking modern at events but it happens. Just like students in my class. I know they are going to talk about other things than why did WWII happen so why fight it. Give those that need to talk about the next event do so in a private way. In the 12th Iowa Company C members were alway leaving for "Seasons of Prayer" guess that is our way of having a "Season of Prayer." Just so you know this isn't happening every twenty minutes. We set this practice so that we could in priavte ask how a pard is doing and not offend others. Hank, you and I are on the right path. Want to come to the Lost Tribes?
Those that want to do it will. And those that won't will be standing at the snow cone line. :)
First person also works when you have a core group that you are always with. So far going to events with the ONV, Hardcase we have developed a bond. We now share common experiences. We can laugh at each other because we know each other. I think we get caught up in tactics, uniforms etc when we forget that these guys were brothers, cousins, friends, neighbors. They knew and trusted (Or didn't trust) on antoher.
First person works! It just takes time. Yes, you have to read. But you also need to know and trust those around you. As captain of Company B myself and the other officers and NCO's are going to work hard to create the experience that we want.
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